How to Date a Hot Ukrainian
What guy wouldn’t want to date a hot Ukrainian? I don’t know how their genes mixed but I guarantee it:
Ukrainian girls are beautiful beyond belief.
Am I exaggerating? Probably, there are unattractive people everywhere. But time after time I hear first-time visitors gush about the women. I couldn’t believe how many gorgeous girls there were and Damn, so there is a reason for all the hype are two very common reactions!
So hot Ukrainian girls are everywhere. Here is how to win them over!
I might as well break the bad news fast. Unlike Western countries, Ukraine does not have a “hook-up culture”. The dating scene is anything but casual!
You have to understand that the Ukrainian mindset is:
- Education and career
- Everything else
Fostering a healthy long-term relationship is a life priority for hot Ukrainian women. In Western Europe and the US, it’s not uncommon to hear “I’m just dating around and trying to enjoy my 20’s as much as possible”.
To be honest, I do think this not the right approach. It’s great to be self-sufficient. Ukrainians, however, are much more in tune with how social we actually have to be. People need people, that’s the kind of thinking in Ukraine.
What does this mean for you?
With some (very limited) exceptions, hot Ukrainian girls are not one-night-stand material.
Depending on the girl, you might still get physical pretty soon. She would not be leaving silently in the morning, though. If you sleep with her, it means things immediately get serious. This is what she will be expecting!
Mail Order Brides
On the other end of the stereotype spectrum, mail-order brides are another huge topic when it comes to dating in Ukraine. The question everyone seems to ask is:
Do all Ukrainians want to marry rich, old, American guys?
To which I say, hell no!
Yes, a lot of Ukrainian women do seek marriage overseas. And yes, marriage agencies are fairly popular in Ukraine.
However, the huge misunderstanding comes from a cultural difference. Ukraine is still a conservative country. Women look for a husband that would be faithful and a good provider. Even though they marry young, they are still picky about who they date.
Let’s not forget that casual dating doesn’t exist and to Ukrainian girls, a boyfriend is just a stepping stone to fiancé.
Unfortunately, there are very few local guys that meet the criteria. It’s not easy to move abroad but to some women, it seems like to only chance at creating a comfortable family life.
In fact, as soon as you start dating hot Ukranian girls, you will notice how close to their families they are. If things get serious, she would still want to visit frequently, she’d Skype them all the time, if you have kids, she’ll teach them about her culture. You can’t get a pretty blonde girl delivered at your door, that is just the thing of stupid sitcoms.
Where To Meet Them
There are five places where the average Ukrainian girl spends her time:
- Home – usually with mom and dad, unless she’s a student living in a dorm.
- University/work – Ukrainians value education and career, these women don’t just want to be housewives!
- Cafés – this is where you meet your friends by day and gossip the afternoon away over a single espresso.
- Shopping malls – Ukrainian girls are quite high maintenance. They love to hit the shops, get their hair and nails done, or simply hang out at a non-freezing temperature place. You can’t exactly stroll around the streets during the Ukrainian winter.
- Bars and nightclubs – Don’t be fooled, it’s not just about the drinking and dancing. Discos in Ukraine are all about showing off. All the most beautiful girls will be there, dolled up and ready to turn heads!
Obviously, you can’t just knock at her door. As a wise woman once said, Prince Charming won’t just show up at your door. But what you can do is:
Use Online Dating
Online dating gets a bad rep sometimes. But why should it? In this day and age, one in three couples starts online. We are all lonely and looking for love, why not use all the resources?
Of course, all the normal, common sense tips apply here. You don’t really know somebody until you’ve met them in person. Don’t send money to strangers. Aim to video chat more than you text – it proves that they’re real. If you have a language barrier, still ask them to send pictures (personalized, mind you). Really, we know all the basics. If you get scammed, 9 out of 10 times it’s because you were stupid enough to allow it.
On the other hand, online dating is one of the easier ways to meet your hot Ukrainian. The site we always recommend is Ukraine Date. It’s targeted enough to give you the right people but large enough for you to have choice. And there are tons of inspiring testimonials!
Dating Site Success!
Sites like Ukraine Date are preferable to dating agencies because they give you freedom. At the same time, they are for relationship-minded individuals. That’s why you can expect plenty of marriages and success stories.
This was the case for Talat and Inna. They met through the site and instantly clicked! The wedding was August 2nd and Inna is now pregnant with their firstborn!
In the case of John and Diana, they also met through Ukraine Date. The two weren’t really expecting much to come out of their membership from the site. However, they started to realise how compatible they are in nature. Soon it moved to Skype and then John flew out to Ukraine to meet her. They were engaged during that trip, right after he met her parents. It happened on Easter Monday, in front of her entire family!
In John’s words:
Diana is a very authentic, caring, clever, and of course beautiful woman. Do not underestimate the power and force of love.
They say if you don’t know why you love somebody, you don’t really love them. Safe to say that this isn’t an issue for this couple!
Meet Your Hot Ukranian IRL
OK, but let’s say you want things “the old-fashioned way”. The first challenge to overcome is the language barrier. Sadly, the Ukranian education system is not that great when it comes to language learning. Most Ukranian women you meet on the daily do not speak English (or know enough to just barely get by).
The percentage is higher on international dating sites but that is normal. After all, these are women who actively look for romance overseas.
Learn a few phrases in either Russian or Ukrainian. Even if you’re far from conversational it will help break the ice! Your strategy will also depend on whether you’re approaching during the day or at a club.
It’s normal for men to approach girls on the street. If you exchange a sexy glance with a girl on the subway, don’t be afraid to go up to her. What is the worst that could happen?
Well, actually, I’ll tell you what’s the worst. She could have her buff boyfriend by her side. That is why you should always target girls that are either alone or with their girlfriends.
It’s not hard to get her number if she fancies you. If she’s not interested, she will let you know. Don’t let the rejections get you down. Day game in Ukraine is purely about numbers.
In Da Club
Approaching hot Ukrainian women at night is a totally different story.
The other key here is:
Dress the part!
I could not stress this enough. Ukrainian clubs are about showing off. She will be dressed to the 9’s. It’s just disrespectful to show up slobby. And yes, anything khaki-coloured or with a Hawaiian print is tacky. What is it about those clothes that American tourists like so much?
A little extra tip here: you might not think twice about it, but scent is powerful. Use a high-quality cologne religiously! Of course, showering and deodorant should be a no-brainer. The opposite sex doesn’t like people with strong body odor. To hell with “pheromones”!
The Bottomline About Your Hot Ukrainian Girl
Here is message you don’t want to hear:
It’s not about how hot she is.
Seriously, beauty isn’t the best thing about Ukrainian women. It’s their warm and caring nature, their loyalty, their femininity and relationship-mindedness.
Meet them here.