The #1 Rule of Ukrainian First Dates
So you’re in Ukraine, on a date. You’ve got a beautiful girl in front of you. Maybe her English isn’t exactly top-notch, but it’s good enough to work with. Your Russian or Ukrainian skills (hint: learn Russian!) are lackluster.
You’re on this date, and while she’s there with you…she’s also not.
Perhaps this Ukrainian girl is a bit cold. You know the reputation of Slavic girls—“Ice Queens”. She is there and somewhat engaged with the conversation, but for one reason or another she just isn’t quite opening up to you. It feels a bit like talking to a robot. She’s icing you out, slightly.
This is a situation that many men coming from the western world just can’t handle. It’s not from a lack of social skills—quite the opposite. But it’s so different it makes you feel uncomfortable.
Therefore, the absolute #1 rule of Ukrainian first dates is…
If she’s still there, on the date with you, she wants to be.
In the western world, it’s sometimes hard to get a girl to talk less. A first date results in her spilling her entire life story—every house she lived in, every sex partner she ever had, all her hopes and dreams.
It’s daunting—because then you have to measure up to the fairy-tale picture that she paints for you.
Because of her stories it becomes clear her expectations are (usually), well—a bit unrealistic.
Whereas a Ukrainian girl won’t really tell you much about her on a first date. In a way, it’s a test. She wants to see if you are comfortable in your own skin, or if you squirm and fill every awkward silence with more awkwardness.
The thing is, Slavic girls in general are pretty straightforward. If she’s not enjoying it, she’s just going to leave. She’ll politely excuse herself after one drink or coffee, and that will be that.
If she’s still on the date with you, she wants to be.
Another tip: Do coffee dates for a first date. Rampant alcoholism among Ukrainians can make Ukrainian women wary if you start downing shots of vodka on a first date—and she’s probably not going to do them with you, either.
Kissing Ukrainian girls on a first date.
This is another test they like to throw—how much of a man are you in the face of rejection?
It’s not uncommon for a Ukrainian girl to turn down your first attempts to kiss her. Maybe even many. But if a girl in the west won’t kiss you, you know it’s not going to happen. She’s not interested—because western culture encourages quick hookups.
It’s very different in Ukraine.
Even if you try to kiss her ten times, and she says no every time—if she’s still there, she wants to be.
Just give a smile that says, “I know how this game works.”
And eventually, it’ll all work out.
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